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Tuesday, October 22, 2019

ItsNotYouItsMe Quote Tales From Muses: Featuring Elton John & A Takeaway From His New Memoir Saluting Freddie Mercury!

ItsNotYouItsMe Quote Tales From Muses: Featuring Elton John and a takeaway from his new memoir!

(The Last Goodbye With Freddie Mercury)

"John also writes about visiting fellow queer pioneer Freddie Mercury while the Queen frontman was dying in the early '90s. And even though Mercury couldn't get out of bed, John shares that "he was still definitely Freddie, gossiping away, completely outrageous: 'Have you heard Mrs. Bowie's new record, dear? What does she think she's doing?'" After his passing, John received a painting from his late friend on Christmas Day. "He was thinking about Christmas presents for a Christmas he must have known in his heart he wouldn't see; thinking about other people when he was really too ill to think of anyone but himself." - Elton John

: Memoir Synopsis :

"From his effortless melodicism to his deliciously campy fashion, the world has known Elton John for the better part of a half-century. But given that many of his best-known hits feature lyrics from longtime collaborator Bernie Taupin (Sir Elton is the musical half of their genius), fans cracking open Elton's new memoir Me might be curious to see what he himself can do with the written word.

Well, much like the man himself, Me is a warm, candid, dryly witty and oftentimes heartbreaking account of a life that's as inspiring as it is unlikely. From his childhood to becoming a father himself, Elton John unspools the story of his life at a brisk pace. And as one of the most internationally visible members of the LGBTQ community, there's a fair share of queer history in the pages of Me.

While by no means comprehensive, below are 10 moments in the book where Elton talks about everything from coming out publicly to his marriage to David Furnish to his last meeting with fellow U.K. rock icon Freddie Mercury. But for the full story? Well, ya gotta take a literary trip down Elton's Yellow Brick Road in the book itself."

Dig Out Missy Elliott’s Jaw-Winding & Insanely Electrifying New Video Single "DripDemeanor"!

Dig Out Missy Elliott’s jaw-winding and insanely electrifying new video single entitled, "DripDemeanor"!

"Missy Elliott has unveiled a striking new video for “DripDemeanor,” a track off her recent comeback EP, Iconology.

Directed by Elliott and Derek Blanks, the “DripDemeanor” clip sits squarely in the rapper’s tradition of mind-bending visuals. The concept is (relatively) simple to start, with Elliott, Sum1 and a crew of dancers moving to the hip-hop slow jam in futuristic goth punk outfits and glow-in-the-dark bodysuits. But a series of delightfully and increasingly weirder flourishes pop up as the video progresses, whether it’s Sum1 singing the hook from the top story of a building made out of Missy’s hair, or the rapper coolly spitting the cut as her eyewear changes in time with the beat.

The “DripDemeanor” video even ends with an unexpected cliffhanger, jumping forward to a scene in which a futuristic museum guide explains the Missy myth to a group of children in a gallery filled with portraits of the rapper (including one in which her face is transposed onto Edvard Munch’s “The Scream”).

When one of the kids asks if Missy was always a queen, the guide replies, “It wasn’t always that easy. See, Missy came up in a very strict home, she wasn’t really allowed to hang out with other kids after a certain time. However, it didn’t stop her from dreaming of the life she was destined to fulfill.”

Elliott released Iconology in August, marking her first release of all-new material since her 2005 album, The Cookbook. A few days after the EP’s arrival, Elliott delivered a career-spanning medley of her hits at the MTV Video Music Awards, where she was presented with the Video Vanguard Award." -

ItsNotYouItsMe "Back To The Future" Edition Salutes Iconic Marilyn Monroe Photos (and The Camera That Took Them) to Hit the Auction Block

ItsNotYouItsMe "Back To The Future" Edition salutes iconic Marilyn Monroe photos (and the Camera That Took Them) to hit the auction block!

""Christie’s has enjoyed a healthy history of selling Marilyn Monroe photographs taken by photographers like Richard Avedon and Andy Warhol, but the auction house has never featured a sale that includes a portrait session with a legendary lensman — until now.

On Oct. 29, among its annual “Exceptional Sale,” Christie’s New York is including Lot #1025, “A Night With Marilyn,” which includes two limited-edition prints of the iconic actress from Douglas Kirkland’s famed “White Sheet” series, originally created for Look magazine in 1961, as well as the Hasselblad 500C, two Carl Zeiss lenses and two magazine backs he used for the photo session. The seven-piece lot carries an auction estimate of $200,000 to $300,000, and there’s a bonus: Kirkland is also offering a photo shoot for the winning bidder.

Douglas Kirkland/Courtesy of Christie's New York
One of two Douglas Kirkland images of Monroe included in the October 29 sale. _________________________________________________________________

“Imagine being the only person you know who has photographs of Marilyn Monroe taken by Douglas Kirkland, plus his camera equipment, and then also a photo of you — or whoever you’d like — that he’s taken,” says Becky MacGuire, sale director of the Christie’s event. “There’s just no comparable for an added value like that.”

At age 85, Kirkland is indeed still actively shooting. A documentary about his life and work, That Click, premieres this weekend during the Rome Film Festival, with interviews that include Michelle Williams, Nicole Kidman and Baz Luhrmann, who worked with the photographer on the set of 2000’s Moulin Rouge. In That Click, Kidman reflects on the impact of the 1961 photos of Monroe, which collectively have become known as the “White Sheet” series, as the actress is surrounded by little more than white silk sheets and a pillow, with Kirkland shooting from all angles, though the overhead shots historically have garnered the most interest. “There’s such a fragility to it and such an honesty,” Kidman says in That Click of the series.

Courtesy of Christie's New York
The Hasselblad camera, Carl Zeiss lenses and magazine backs included in the auction lot.

Kirkland, then just 27, was nervous at the prospect of his first photo shoot with Monroe, MacGuire says, and the actress noticed. “She announced to everyone in the room, ‘I know what we really need — I need to be alone with this boy,’ so the photo assistant left, the agent left and it was just Kirkland and Marilyn in the room together,” MacGuire notes. “He also just used a handheld light, because he didn’t want to distract her with something that might create a bit more noise. And you see that electricity between them. It’s magical.”

In an email to The Hollywood Reporter, Kirkland downplays the impact of his photographs. “I never, ever thought any of my work would become ‘important,’” he says. “I am still shooting at 85. Photography is in my blood, and I see the world better through a camera. I still don’t quite believe the attention I am getting. I feel incredibly fortunate.”

Courtesy of Christie's New York
A behind-the-scenes look at Douglas Kirkland photographing Marilyn Monroe for Look magazine in 1961.

Kirkland’s photographs and camera equipment ultimately fit nicely within Christie’s “Exceptional Sale,” an annual event that has taken place since 2008. “In addition to masterpieces of decorative arts, we like to think of it as significant icons of popular culture, top examples by an esteemed maker,” MacGuire explains, noting that past lots have included Carole King’s Steinway piano and a limited-edition Aston Martin owned by Daniel Craig. “This year we also have one of Miles Davis’s trumpets, the blue ‘Moon and Stars’ trumpet made by Martin Company, which also made trumpets for Dizzy Gillespie, and Miles idolized Dizzy. He was an extremely visual person, so he designed this piece in a deep-blue lacquer with gilt moon and stars, and it’s quite visually arresting.”

Courtesy of Christie's New York
A Miles Davis trumpet is also part of “The Exceptional Sale” at Christie’s New York on October 29.

The same, of course, can be said about Kirkland’s Monroe photographs. And 57 years after her death, it seems the screen icon is hotter than ever: In addition to the Kirkland lot in the Christie’s auction, Culver City-based Julien’s Auctions is hosting “Property From the Life and Career of Marilyn Monroe,” a sale of costumes, furniture and other personal items Nov. 1, while on Oct. 31, watch brand Blancpain will debut “Timeless Elegance,” an exhibition in its Madison Avenue boutique. “Timeless Elegance” will showcase a rarely seen, Art Deco-inspired Blancpain timepiece worn by Monroe, surrounded by Lawrence Schiller photographs and a variety of memorabilia.

What is it about Monroe that continues to draw such interest? “It’s not just that she always photographed so beautifully; her story is also very poignant, and I think that really connects with people,” MacGuire says. “You see that with certain icons. Marilyn Monroe, Elizabeth Taylor, Princess Diana, Audrey Hepburn — the interest is worldwide, and stronger than ever.”" -

Last Memories of Summer

"Liam Esteban and Jesús Moreno photographed by Anthony Buenaflor and styled by Franco Giovanni, in exclusive for Fucking Young! Online.

Creative & Photographer: Anthony Buenaflor @abv.95
Photography assistant: Luis Castro & Gonzalo Criado: @castmotel || @gonzalo_criado
Stylist & M.U.A.H: Franco Giovanni: @giovannifrancoviera
Stylist assistant: @peters.diary
Models: Liam Esteban & Jesús Moreno: @liam_estebam || @jesus.morenoc." -

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